Today I was received into Carmelite formation – and no, I did NOT just become a nun!

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Today I was received into Carmelite formation. Really – I couldn’t be happier! ūüôā It seems as if my whole life has lead me up to this point. Now I am part of a family where I will have the space and the resources to discover and develop a part of myself that has been screaming to get out for a very, very long time.

I have been asking people to pray for me on Facebook regarding this over the last few weeks and to my great amusement, there were quite  a large number of people who congratulated me on becoming a nun! This got even funnier when they realised I was married with 3 kids!

Let me explain…

In the Carmelite (ocds) order there are¬†the First Order – the friars (who are active/contemplative), the Second Order – the nuns (who are cloistered) and the Third Order (or ‘Seculars’)¬†–¬†laypeople who continue to live in the world, and can be married or single, and diocesan priests.¬†I am becoming a Third Order (secular) Carmelite.¬†¬†The seculars are fully part of the Order, taking similar promises to friars and nuns but related to their lives as lay people.

The first part of my formation lasts 1-2 years. At the end of this time I will make my First Promise. Then there is a second period of formation lasting 4-5 years. At the end of this time I will make my Final (life long) Promise. After this I will become a fully fledged Carmelite.

The charism (or spiritual focus) of the Carmelite Order is contemplation.¬†But a very important point is to understand that¬†Carmelites understand contemplation and action to be complementary, not contradictory.¬†This is a particularly important point to grasp because¬†I am living the Carmelite charism within my vocation as a wife and a mother. The two actually fit together hand in hand beautifully, and is perfectly described in the famous quote for Teresa of Avila “God is found among the pots and pans.”

The Carmelite Order is considered by the Church to be under the special protection of the Blessed Virgin Mary, and has a strong Marian devotion. ‘Our Lady of Mount Carmel’ is the title given to the Blessed Virgin Mary in her role as patroness of the Carmelite Order.

We wear the Brown Scapular (which is basically a tiny habit!)

We say the Divine Office morning, evening and night prayer.

We follow the rule of St Albert.

Some famous Carmelite saints you may have heard of are¬†Teresa of √Āvila,¬†Saint Th√©r√®se of Lisieux,¬†Saint Teresa Benedicta of the Cross (Edith Stein), Saint John of the Cross,¬†St. Simon Stock¬†and many more…

It is a way of life. A spirituality focused on the interior life – prayer from the heart, relationship with God.

I am really just scratching the surface here! And lets not forget I’m just a beginner! But I hope this goes some way to explaining what I am doing in my life now and the fact that even though I have just been received into formation, I have not just become a nun!

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12 thoughts on “Today I was received into Carmelite formation – and no, I did NOT just become a nun!

  1. Congratulations and may God bless you on your journey. I too was received into formation just before last Christmas so I understand your excitement and the feeling of coming home.

  2. Dearest Claire, my heart felt congratulations. How beautiful, I couldn’t be happier for you. It’s the most loveliest way of fulfilling Our loving Lord’s every dream and His every desire He has for you. Your an inspiration Claire to your families and lives you touch with your blog “Faith in Our Families.
    God bless
    Love
    Margaret and Brian Birch

  3. Congratulations Claire: It’s a real blessing for you and the Church. Enjoy the next few years getting to know your Carmel Family – I have been doing so for many years. Andrew

  4. I love your story! I was received into the Lay Dominican family in August of last year. We wear a white scapular. This August, I will be eligible to make my temporary profession and three years after, my final. It’s been quite a journey and I’m meeting some really great people. I blog about my journey in Centered In Christ, “Cobblestones on the Path”. Thanks for sharing your story!
    Mary

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